as most ppl would now know (as announced on facebook), im "in a relationship". haha. first time ive ever changed my relationship status even tho this aint the first one.
unfortunately, it's a long distance relationship (aka LDR, no, not dslr, not talking abt cameras here). he lives in auck. i live in timaru. ive never expected dat i would end up in a ldr becos i hate ldrs. but i guess the chances of me finding someone in timaru were slim anyways. a lot of the girls working here are in ldrs.
i guess it's better to start off dat i didnt meet him online. ive known him for nearly 7-8 years now. since high school days. it's a long story of wat happened then but basically he was the first guy i went out with but it only lasted 10 days. haha. dats y i find it funny now dat im with him, 7 years later and we have lasted more than 10 days.
but yes alas, we r in a ldr. i kno most ppl think ldrs suck and they do. it takes a lot of effort on both parties to make it work. and yes vodafone best mate does help but did u kno they r changing it starting from july?!?! changing it to best mate 1000, which means 1000 minutes per month with 1000 txts. dat means only 33.33 mins per day. not long enuf.
msn also works but the technology is never better than the real thing.
altho someone told me dat there are pros to ldrs. everytime u meet up, u look forward to it and tend to do more exciting things together rather than just do wat other couples do usually. which is true. i reckon also dat u get more personal time to urself to do things dat i like to do on my own. such as watching my drama. hahahahaha. oh, i told a fren i miss being single. cos i miss complaining abt being single. lol.
so wat's gonna happen now? i dunno. i really dunno. for one, i wanna work on my career. trouble is i still dunno wat i wanna specialise in and where i wanna work. im definitely not wat someone calls a "follower". i dunno. i cant imagine giving up things for the guy or to follow the guy wherever he goes. maybe it's cos im too selfish or ive been taught to always do things for myself, to work towards my own goals etc etc. a fren told me im independent and strong minded. yea maybe i am. oh i just found out from him dat he's gonna be more based in chch now. haha. so i guess he's the follower.
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lol "follower" !! yeah ure not a follower but i definitely admire you for being the awesome independent woman i always want to be!! :)
ooh sounds exciting! all the best yin! =)
Nooo..i disagree! LDRs SUCK!! no pros at all! i'd rather do ordinary mundane things and be with my man everyday :( (but thats also because i know henry wont get toooo boring lah hehe) and yeah im a follower. although i wish i would be 'followed' sometimes too. sigh, lucky you! this ldr is killing me! cant wait for our conversation catch up! :D haha..
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