Friday, March 19, 2010

change of ideals?

TGIF! except im working this wkend. grrrr....

someone asked me recently whether my list has changed. the list referred to is my list of traits and characteristics of the type of guy id like to be with. i wrote the list more than a year ago. a lot has happened since then. but then again, u could say nothing much has happened since then. cos im still single!

i was reading the list again earlier and i have to say most of the list has not changed. but i think now, im thinking why do i want a boyfriend? is it for the companionship? is it for the attention? will i even be a good girlfriend? i dont think im a good girlfriend in general actually. i criticise a lot and i think i require a lot of work. haha. aka im high maintenance. and i think ive become independent to the stage where i find dat there are times i dont need a boyfriend. but then again, there are times when a boyfriend is handy. but then dat would mean im just using him rite?

i dunno. my relationship status has been quite stagnant. should i be less fussy and widen my options? but then dat would ruin my 2 yr plan. haha. hmm..i really dunno..im kinda stuck.

on another note, ive removed my blog link from facebook. haha. it's to prevent distant acquaintances/relatives (i.e. uncles/aunties who have added me on facebook) from reading my blog. cos i think dats a bit weird. hmm. even my parents read my blog. and i think dats weird. they called me today asking why i have removed the link. now they cant remember the blog address. hahahaha. mission accomplished.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

omg cant believe u let ur parent read this blog!

mooyin said...

it's not dat i let them. i put it on my facebook and my parents have facebook. but now it's off facebook. haha. and they cant remember the blog address. heehee..

another anonymous.....lost count already.....

Jennoz said...

haha my parents have been asking me to set up facebook for them i just ignore them HAHAHA! :D hope your shift iis going well :)

mooyin said...

my parents were actually tech savvy enuf to sign up for an account themselves! i think they just use it to stalk me. hahaha!

sereneione said...

You can set it so that they can't see your blog link. :) I do that to my family. And family friends.