everytime im on holiday in sg, i end up reading romance novels and watching tv drama, more specifically korean drama. it is probably fuelling my unrealistic ideals of wat a relationship shuld be but oh wat the heck..haha. every girl needs their cinderella and happily ever after fantasies. including me.
but then am i gonna plan my life ard finding my so called prince charming? um, i shuld think not. i was talking to a couple of girls today who have life plans dat include their future husband. they wanna buy a house together with their husband and have plans to go to paris for their honeymoon. the problem is they havent found the so called husband. in fact, they r still single. and so they r stuck, wanting to start investing but unable to buy a house becos they want to buy one with their future husband.
which made me think, how am i planning my future? i certainly am not gonna wait to marry before i start investing in my first house. heck, i would like to think im independent enuf to be able to make these decisions by myself. and the thing is yea im hoping for my own happily ever after but if i don't manage to find it, then dats ok cos really, i can do my own thing. buy my own house, go to paris on my own and explore the country if need be. im making my own plans and wat ive realised is dat im very lucky to be in my situation. i have a perfectly good life, with family and frens, a stable career dat will never be affected by the recession and im young and healthy. life awaits me and i think anything else would be counted as bonuses. i just need to drill dat into my head. but heck, im going back to watching my korean drama. lol.
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